Are you in a relationship that you want a commitment from? Not sure if your boyfriend is ready to commit? How do you get a guy to commit to you and only you? Commitment is a very touchy subject with a man. Women usually commit to a guy before that guy commits to only her. However, a guy who loves you should be willing to commit! Here are some tips to help you make that happen.
Most men are deathly afraid of commitment. At the word, many of them will leave without a trace. Of course, if this is your reaction, it very well could be a good thing. A guy who is completely running away from the idea of committing himself probably wasn’t in the relationship for the right reasons. A guy who really cares about you might have a hard time accepting the idea, but he shouldn’t run away from it completely.
You can’t really make a guy commit. If he’s not ready, then he’s not ready. However, there are some things you can do on your part to show him that you are ready for a commitment. This may help him see what your intentions are without pushing him to do something he may not be ready for.
First of all, if you haven’t slept with him yet, then don’t. Making him wait to have sex won’t make him commit, but it will show him that you’re not just up for a casual fling. By making him wait to have sex, he will know that you are interested in a relationship on a much more serious level.
By sleeping with him early on, you are already revealing to him that you may not be relationship material. Guys have the ability to sleep with anyone with open arms. However, when it comes to relationships, they tend to date girls who are a bit harder to get.
If you’ve been in the relationship for a while and feel like he really should be on a commitment level, talk to him. Let him know how you feel and discuss your need for commitment with him. Don’t get too carried away if he doesn’t seem very receptive at first. Guys are not usually as open with their feelings as women. However, in the end, he will be glad that you told him how you felt. This will eliminate the confusion.
Under no circumstances should you give a guy an ultimatum. This is the fastest way to end the relationship. Instead, let him know that you don’t want to see other men and that you would really like him not to see any other women. Instead of putting marriage on the table, just let him know that you want it to be just the two of you.
If he still wants to see other women, he may not have feelings as strong as yours. This leaves you with three basic options. The first is to accept it and leave the relationship as it is. The next option is to wait and be patient. Try to have the chat again at another time. The other option is to cancel the relationship and move on. There may be someone out there who is looking for a serious relationship.