Would not you like to know? Lately, it seems that almost every man is asking this question. Of course, there are those who just “have the gift”, but if you’re not one of those lucky few, you have to learn it, like most of us.
Sounds like hard work, right? I tell you the truth, it could be. Most of the time, it is. Most guys try to “figure it out” on their own. The result? They approach a couple of girls, they are rejected. Lots of other girls. Refused. After a few nights of partying, they get desperate and just STOP.
So how do you flirt with a girl? Is there a specific ‘way’? Is there a “secret” that we are all missing? Well, the answer is yes or no. Let me explain. Girls respond to specific things. All of them. In prehistoric times, the caveman who had the most food and shelter to offer would get all the girls. Why? Because he had the solutions to the girls’ problems. What does all that have to do with your flirting skills? Everything. Keep reading.
While humans have changed a lot over evolution and time, they are still driven by the same basic needs. Like any other living being. Now, let’s see what we can learn from our caveman friend. In ancient times, everyone fought for food and shelter from animals and barbarians.
A male who had both to offer instantly attracted females. Why? Because he had the SOLUTIONS to the PROBLEMS of the girls. A female knows that mating with him will grant her food and shelter. She can meet her basic needs.
In short, you have value to offer. And that is, the cornerstone of attraction. Worth. Therefore, if you want to know how to flirt with girls, you need to know how to show courage. And as we said, courage is responding to a girl’s basic needs. The two most important basic needs of women in today’s world are the future and fun. Everyone else belongs to one of these categories. So, in order to flirt with a girl, you have to show her qualities that respond to these needs.