Most guys who realize that their girl is less and less interested in being with them will panic and do stupid things that will exacerbate the situation. I will be frank. If she is pulling away from you, the problem is communication. After all, it takes two to tango. As long as you’re together, if you don’t put up, she’ll withdraw, she doesn’t want to waste time with someone who isn’t willing to keep her around. Below are some key signs that she is pulling away from you.
- He doesn’t call you so much anymore.
- When you talk on the phone, it’s awkward.
- She’s not that excited to spend “special time” with you.
- She would rather go out with her friends more often than you.
- He doesn’t say “I love you” so much anymore.
Do you want me to be close to you again, before it’s too late? I recommend that you just have a chat once in a while. To be perfectly honest, this is all it takes to resolve this issue. If you don’t talk to her at all, you’re neglecting the simplest rule in the book. Pick up the phone and call her. Ask her how her day was. Tell him about something funny that you saw on the way to work or college. Tell her you love her (and you really do). She tells jokes and remembers things. Can it be that easy?
It’s especially important in a long-distance relationship, because it’s all you have. Many mature couples say that it is what has kept their relationships golden for many years. It’s possible to hit your 40th or even 50th anniversary, if you’re just willing to chat once in a while.
What you talk about doesn’t even have to have a purpose. All it has to be is an exchange of words, thoughts, emotions and you will grow to appreciate your partner. It is the oldest, but strongest, method of keeping a relationship together. Think about it this way. You can’t build trust if you don’t have communication. So, communication is the crude oil and trust is the refined gasoline that drives a relationship into the sunset.