Top 10.5 Signs Your Girlfriend Is Disrespectful
You forget about the date you planned even if you’ve been talking about it for weeks or forget to return your phone calls numerous times. Everyone forgets and it’s okay for her to forget things once on a blue moon, but if she does it multiple times it’s disrespectful.
You plan something with her and she doesn’t show up or has something else to do, even if she agreed previously. Sure, you may have to make emergency changes to your schedule, but if you repeatedly go back on your planned date, that’s a problem.
Not only is he refusing to have sex, but he shows no interest in you. She shows no interest in his activities, work or family. She distances herself emotionally and turns off her emotions regarding you.
Whatever you say, she says otherwise just to piss you off. You say tomatoes, she says tomatoes. Even if she doesn’t believe what she said, she says the opposite of what you say to get under your skin. If you say you want to go to the movies, she says she doesn’t want to and she wants to go to eat. His combativeness is a way of testing yourself just to see if you can take him to the next level # 6.
6. Witty comments
By witty comments, I mean they say rude things that offend you. For example, you may be talking and then I call you ignorant out of nowhere. Basically, your girlfriend is looking down on you and being very disrespectful. If you let her continue to be disrespectful, she will take it to the next level # 5.
This is worse than rude comments. She insults you by calling you nicknames like fat, dumb, or old. If you allow him to talk to you like that and insult you, he will go to the next level.
4. Public embarrassment
So you let her insult you at home, well now she’s made herself comfortable and you’ve created a monster. He starts yelling at you when you are in public. For example, you are in a restaurant and she yells at you and says, “hurry up and order”, in a loud and disrespectful tone in front of strangers.
She starts talking bad about you when you’re not behind your back. When you interact with your family or friends, you tell them how dumb you are and how lazy you are. He might even start saying embarrassing private things about you, like that you are a tiny man.
She sees that she can get away with it and starts to cheat on you. You never get mad at her for embarrassing you in public nor do you ever talk and express your feelings so that she feels the need to go with another guy.
1. Physical damage
They may feel the need to start hitting you or even try to use objects like a knife or gun. He could even trick you into robbing or killing you. Some of the readers may not believe this is possible, but don’t they see it on the news, women trying to find a hit man or getting arrested for assaulting their man? This is the most dangerous form of disrespect and I would recommend that you stay away because your life will be in danger.
You shouldn’t allow any of the above to happen to you, but when it starts to affect your self-esteem, it deepens. The way she treats or talks to you starts to affect the way you think about yourself. This is very dangerous because it can affect you emotionally and affect you outside of the relationship. For example, you start not going out with your friends, you no longer perform well at work, or you start to get depressed.
The best way to solve all these problems is to leave the situation. I don’t care if you have children or live together, if your girlfriend or wife starts to abuse you should go. You can’t fix a bad with a bad, so you better not try to abuse her or try to hurt her physically; she’s not worth turning your life into hell or putting you in jail.