Most men don’t know how to eat a girl right. Fortunately, giving a girl an orgasm through oral sex isn’t rocket science and it’s actually pretty straightforward. Here are three keys to giving a girl orgasms that make her legs shake when she eats her.
1. Fan the flames of your arousal
Girls are not like boys, it takes time to arouse them, and the more you take your time to increase her arousal, the easier it will be to get her to climax. Enjoy foreplay and use it to really turn her on. Spend 5-10 minutes kissing her all over her neck and shoulders. And as you kiss her, continually rub her pleasure zone with your knee or upper thigh. Kiss her all over her body. When you turn her on a lot and decide to give her some satisfaction, don’t go directly from kissing her on the lips to going down. Kiss her neck, her body and move down slowly. And when you get there, don’t kiss her there yet, take your time just breathing on her and gently brushing your lips over her. By taking your time with a girl like this, you will have her relaxed, warmed up and in the perfect frame of mind to have an incredible orgasm.
2. Focus on the sweet spot
After heating it up incredibly, it’s time to hit the sweet spot. You want to focus on the clitoris. You will not give her an orgasm orally with any other part of her. You will only get it through the continuous stimulation of her clitoris. Once you are stimulating the sweet spot and turning her on, don’t stop. If you are about to have an orgasm and you stop for even 5 seconds, you will have to start over. Don’t lose focus on the sweet spot.
3. Maintain a constant movement
The final key to eating a girl properly is maintaining consistency with the movement of your tongue. There are three movements to use; a side-to-side motion, an up-and-down motion, and a circular motion. Pick one that you’re good at, or even better, one that you can notice turns her on, and stick with it. You may have heard of a technique in which you write the alphabet with your tongue. This does not work! Stay with one move. It is especially important to maintain this consistency when you are nearing climax. Many guys make the mistake of speeding up when the girl starts to lose control, thinking it will push her to the limit. Don’t speed up! When he’s around, keep doing exactly what you’ve been doing to get him there.
Learning how to eat a girl right is the easiest way to get her excited about how good you are in bed. And when you give a girl so much pleasure, she will always want to please you in return (if you know what I mean). Follow these three key guidelines and you will always give girls orgasms.