It can be difficult to admit that your sex life is not what you would like it to be, but you are not alone. Busy lifestyles and heavy workloads can put pressure on a relationship and especially your sex life. It is a common problem for most couples in a long-term relationship.
There are many people who wish their sex life was better. If you and your partner have good and open communication, which every good relationship should have, then you are halfway to improving your sex life. The subject must be approached with sensitivity. You don’t want to scare them with a great talk and a list of demands!
Instead, there are little things you can do every day to start improving the quality of your sex life. Follow these tips below to help set the scene.
1. I bet you …
Play a flirty game with them. Make a small bet on something. Whoever loses has to cook dinner in the outfit chosen by the other partner.
2. Flirty fun
It can be easy to overlook how we interact with our partner when we are in a rush, tired, and overwhelmed. Take the time to compliment them or smile. Joke and laugh. Having fun and enjoying being together are the most important parts of a relationship and can lead to a deeper connection in the bedroom.
3. Look at me!
You need to spend time improving your sex life and who doesn’t like to be paid attention to? Get your partner in the mood by asking about their day, listen, and ask questions. Don’t fake it! Be really interested, but don’t overdo it either. Simple, non-sexual strategies can work too.
4. Touch me
This one is especially for the ladies. Sit next to him and “accidentally” rub your breasts against his arm. You will definitely notice.
5. Good looks
Sweatpants may be comfortable around the house, but they won’t start any fires in the dresser. If you spend most of your time together at night, dress to impress, even if you’re hanging out to put on sweats. It will be worth it later, even if you’re not in the mood tonight.
6. Do you feel sexy?
Do little things to make yourself feel sexy. Try wearing your favorite underwear or cologne to work. Tell your partner what you are doing: laugh at your little secret.
7. Let’s play pretend
No one else except your partner knows that your bedroom life isn’t all you want it to be. Act confidently and you will begin to feel more confident. Other people will notice your positive and confident attitude, including your partner. As you begin to feel more secure, it will become easier for you to address problems with your partner.
Start slowly and remember how to enjoy your time together. Commit to making time for each other and you will be on the right track to improve your sex life.